How To Cope With Anxiety Naturally: 5 Ideas To Try Now

Updated on June 5, 2022 by Team ShineSheets

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I’ve been anxious for my whole life. 

Preschool. School. Uni. Work. Relationships. You name it! Being sensitive is not easy.

Heck, sometimes it can legitimately drive you crazy (and if you came to read this, you probably already know that).

Anxiety is hard to beat completely, but there’s good news – it can be managed.

Through time and practice, one can learn to be less anxious and a little braver.

When you feel anxious, it’s essential to slow down and take things easy.

Here are some of the activities I do when my anxiety is skyrocketing (and if you want to track your anxiety levels too, grab this tracker while you’re here!).


Coping With Anxiety – a Mini Guide


How To Cope With Anxiety Naturally (5 Ideas To Try Now)


1) Decompress as soon as you can


Had a major stressful event? Maybe a stressful day? A Month? A year?..

You need to start decompressing. Get somewhere comfy as soon as you can and as often as you can.

I mean, if someone asked me how to cope with anxiety faster, I would say “go to the comfiest place you can find and do something you love the most, right away!”

A blonde woman sits in a relaxing decorated room with candles and plays with her white dog

The reason it works is simple – once you make your brain think about pleasurable things, the stress response in your body begins to subside slowly.

Anything can be useful here – candlelit atmosphere, soothing music, purring cat on your lap, rain sounds, calming guided meditation – anything you like. If you’re a fan of alternative therapy, using healing crystals can be very relaxing as they induce a sense of relaxation in the environment. If you look through the meanings of different crystals you can see that Malachite is considered to be the most popular anti-anxiety stone. It balances your emotions by removing negative thoughts from the mind. The gorgeous green gem is also considered symbolic of nature, its revitalizing freshness, and positive growth.

I personally love warm water. Step in your shower or bathtub and let the warm water soothe you – works like a magic potion.

Forget about hair masks or leg shaving, these can wait! Try not to think about anything and concentrate only on this fantastic feeling on your skin.

I like to sit in my shower for good 30 minutes (I know it’s wasteful, but sometimes it’s the only thing that helps) and even though it doesn’t wash away my problems, it relieves tight muscles and that’s enough to feel a little better immediately.

Another way to deeply relax is by using high-quality essential oil blends. 

A good, relaxing essential oil can lift weeks of stress in minutes.

You can use essential oils in a diffuser, add a few drops in your hot steaming shower or add to your body lotion if it’s suitable for topical use. Here are some great blends I’ve discovered recently:

Natural relaxing things are much healthier to your body… And that leads me to my next tip.


2) Drink valerian root tea or take magnesium


If you’re not allergic to valerian root, this calming herb can be a real lifesaver when coping with anxiety.

You can find it in many forms – tea, tincture, or tablet supplements, and it works by giving your body a calming effect.

I usually sip valerian root tea with honey and it helps me to feel less tense and anxious in about 15 minutes. It also helps your body fall asleep and works since it’s a natural muscle relaxant too.

If you’re not familiar with valerian root or can’t find it where you live, magnesium is another supplement that gives a similar effect and is more available.

Just be careful about the dosage – too much magnesium will result in prolonged bathroom sessions, ahem.


3) Write your thoughts down


How to cope with anxiety when your thoughts are running like crazy and keep creating those unpleasant feelings in your body? Let them out!

Writing down helps to clear your mind and let it rest.

A girl with a comfy sweater writes in her anxiety journal

When I encounter a serious overthinking period, it’s almost the only way to stop my thoughts from running around like crazy.

If it’s just general anxiety, I use my Anxiety Journal to do some mindfulness breathing and thought dumping, maybe choose something from the Triggers & Helpers list to redirect my attention.

If I am worrying like crazy and feel restless, the absolute best way to deal with it is a short guided meditation and The Worry Workbook which I absolutely swear by.

It encourages self-support and gently forces you to evaluate negative thoughts – are they real, or just imagined?..

Can I change the situation?

Am I avoiding something?

How can I comfort and support myself?

It’s silly how often you can find yourself worrying about something that is only in your head.

Read more about this: Anxiety Journals and how they can help you

Here are the journals that I use:


4) Talk to someone you trust


If you can, talk to someone you trust. Sometimes people can give you valuable tips on how to cope with anxiety in your particular situation – they can see everything clearly and more rationally than you do. It’s you who’s stressed after all.

Make sure the person is understanding and non-judgemental – you don’t need to listen to anything negative right now.

If you don’t have that kind of person or no one is available right now, it is totally fine to use online therapy websites.

*P. S. If you feel like your anxiety is getting out of control, I really, really recommend considering therapy. I don’t know why it sometimes has a bad stigma, but many people have benefited from it and I think it’s at least worth trying.


5) How to cope with anxiety when nothing else helps? Buckle up and let it pass!


Finally, if nothing really helps my anxiety, I just let it be and try to do something easy and pleasant, like watching TV.

Thoughts, worries, troubles, bad feelings… They all pass – sooner or later. Always.

And if I can’t eliminate my anxiety, I try to learn to embrace it.

It’s the part of me at the moment – and that’s fine!

It’s OK to not feel ok.

It’s normal to be sad.

This too shall pass anyway, but you will come out stronger, even if your anxiety attack will take days to come down (yes, it happened to me before… yet I’m still OK).


More Resources On How To Cope With Anxiety Naturally


Here’s a ton of additional resources I recommend to anyone trying to cope with anxiety in natural ways ❤️ All of the tips and resources I provide come from my personal experience with anxiety, so you can rest assured that I GET IT. I’ve been living with anxiety for a long time, so I know what it feels like. However, living with it for so long also allowed me to gather a lot of helpful knowledge on how to cope with anxiety and stop/release it naturally. I am glad to share it all:


P. S. Want to learn how to cope with anxiety, withstand worry spells, and find relief at the comfort of your home?


I really recommend you to get my Anxiety Management Bundle to start your anti-anxiety journal practice. You can print and start it in a few minutes, and it’s an easy way to start working on your negative thoughts, conquer them, reshape them and learn to be more positive and brave.

This bundle features the four most popular printable anxiety journals and tools from the ShineSheets store and is available to print right now. You can write down your thoughts in an anxiety journal, diffuse your worry in a guided workbook, track your sleep and anxiety levels, and learn to manage your anxiety safely and medication-free. It may sound weird if you never tried journaling, but to many people, including me, it was a game-changer.

I wish you to stay resilient and keep fighting. Every rain is ultimately followed by a burst of sunshine. Stay strong!

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